It’s your wedding day; and
who do you turn to make sure that your nerves and your wedding dress
is at the church on time? That’s the job of your maid of honor.
The one thing you need in planning your wedding is someone who understands
your concerns and gives you practical advice.
On your most important day your stress level will naturally be elevated
higher than you ever thought possible. This is an event you have
been dreaming of since you were a little girl. . Whether the dream
was a Cinderella princess bride or a classic chic modern girl, detailed
planning is critical to the success of your wedding day. Trying
to take care of every detail yourself is totally impossible; learning
to delegate to your maid of honor will be important to making your
vision come true. Don’t be afraid to kick back and let your
friend take some of the planning into her capable hands.
As your of maid of honor, she is responsible for hosting your bridal
shower and bachelorette party. Whether she chooses an intimate spa
weekend or a wild night out, the events need to reflect your tastes
and expectations, so the maid of honor really has to be in tune
with her friend. She needs to be supportive of all the changes that
will occur in the planning stage and the slip ups that may happen
on the wedding day.
There will be shopping excursions where you
will definitely need her support in selecting colors, dresses, invitations,
party favors and so much more. Your husband to be may be asked to
join in these decisions, but remember, your wedding day is something
you have been planning since you were a little girl. It is the one
event in your life that revolves solely around you.
The wedding day is definitely your day, but also a very busy one
for your maid of honor. Of course the most important task she will
have will be to walk down the aisle and stand by her best friend,
but more importantly she is there to keep you calm and handle any
problems that might pop up.
Very few weddings go exactly as planned
and your maid of honor needs to be the friend who sees you through
it all. She should be equipped with emergency supplies like pins,
tissues, hair products, and extra stockings. You never know what
might happen during the wedding or the reception.
One thing you need more than anything else at this most important
time in your life is a good friend who understands your concerns
and gives you practical advice that you can trust. Your wedding
day can be overwhelming; after all it is the beginning of a new
season in your life. Choose your maid of honor wisely so she is
able help you to turn your dream wedding into a beautiful reality.
Sharing responsibilities with her will give you more available time
to enjoy everything that planning your wedding should be.